Also, it's not like you're banned from the forum guys, I'm pretty sure you can plead your case if anything.
That's why this subforum exists.
This isn't really a democracy guys. It's Fog's server.
But it's not dictatorship either. If that were the case I'd simply name an admin who bans whoever he/she dislikes for whatever reasons or simply because I say to do so.
I was getting complaints nearly every day by PM and my problem is that I had difficulties to decide. I cannot and I won't monitor every game, so who is to believe? The player complaining, the other player accidently killing the other one, the one peer pressured? The whole banning mechanism shouldn't be abused and the only way to avoid abuse is a public discussion of the matter. Public, because others might have something to say about the case and haven't PM'ed me.
This thread is getting more and more an exchange of blows without new arguments. I am closing it before someone gets hurt. Like I said some posts before: If this turns out to be a bad idea, we'll rethink it.